HOW? WHY? WHERE ARE YOU GOD?

I don't understand you sometimes God. You are supposed to be a just God, a merciful God. But how are you when tragedy stikes, especially twice in a family. Why is this happening to this family. What did they do to deserve this? Where are you God?? Those are good questions and they are valid. I wish i knew the answers. Our church friends has a son who got trapped in a sand tunnel him and the other kids were digging, he was the last one out and got trapped for 20 minutes without oxygen. He is now in a strange hospital, in a strange town, with doctors he doesnt know around him. He is on lifesupport with no chances of making it back as his brain is dead. His family is with him. But this isnt fair Its not supposed to happen to him. They went through this 15 years ago when the eldest got struck by a car and was in a coma for a long time, though he made it ok, other then being a quad now for the rest of his life. IF there is NO improvement They will think about taking him off lifesupport. THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME GOD I WANT TO SEE A MIRACLE!!!!!! I WANT TO SEE ZAC PLAY AND JUMP WITH OUR YOUNGER KIDS AGAIN. But at the same time I am thinking of the song by Wayne Watson, At the Ultimate healing WE will be HOME FREE. Praying for a miracle is great, its what God wills that we have to pray for thats tough. And it hurts to pray for that. But we must.