grief, confusion, and media lies

when grieving over someone dying, its not supposed to be so dramatic. its not supposed to be this back and forth thing, "yes he did; no he didnt; yes he did." Its either he did or he didnt. you take one news cast that reports that he died on sunday, and then the family was like really? news to us. Its been a mess to say the least. unfortunatly its caused a lot of confusion where some of his friends are so confused they dont know how to let go now. they dont want to let him go. Understandable. Its been one loop after another after an other on this rollercoaster. But now that we know he is in heaven, it should be easier to grieve. Just feel bad for these kids who have had to grieve once, twice, three times now over this. Sooo I dont know.